Before the break for the long Easter weekend, the school children gave us a display of traditional dance. Enjoy..
Friday, 23 April 2021
Monday, 5 April 2021
Baby Shower
Well, it's been a long time, sorry about that.
I thought I would chat about a baby shower I went to recently. Here in Zambia, the baby shower happens when the baby is about a month old and marks the day when the baby is taken out of the house and seen with the mother out and about. It is an opportunity for the mothers of the community to get together and give the new mother advice about taking care of the baby, the other children and her husband, as well as bringing gifts. It is a very joyous occasion and is very much a party. The men are excluded.
This baby shower was for the grandchild of a friend of Amos. I was invited, and the grandfather appealed to Amos to escort me there so that they could spend the afternoon together, exiled from the house!
It was a lovely party, lots of talking, sharing words from the Bible, praying and singing. After the gift giving the baby was taken out of the house and the ladies sang and danced in celebration. You will see from the video that the baby is handled very vigorously and doesn't seem to mind. This is the way it goes at all the baby showers I've been to. However much the baby is tossed into the air, I have never seen one complain!
Friday, 18 September 2020
A bit of R & R. And some animals
We've just had the opportunity to spend a couple of days in Livingstone. This included a boat trip on the Zambezi, some relaxing by a tributary river and of course, animals. And meeting some friends returning from the States.
Here are some of the animals:
Elephants, some young mothers and their babies coming down to the river for a drink
And a beautiful sunset
Tuesday, 25 August 2020
Autumn or Spring?
One of the things about being here that is the most different from being in Wales is the seasons. Here we have hot, wet, and cold. The boundaries between them are blurred and the seasonal markers we have in the UK don't seem to apply.
The cold season is just finishing. Leaves have been falling from the trees and at the same time new leaves are growing. No months of naked trees here, take off one suit of clothes and put on the next. Here are some examples:
Some trees are in their fresh spring attire while others still stand naked |
Some are still wearing last year's leaves, brown and crisp and ready to fall |
The mangoes have their fresh leaves and flowers above the dark green ones yet to come down |
Some are still changing colour. This one is always the last to change, when the new leaves begin to show here we will know that the hot season is well and truly upon us |
Thursday, 7 May 2020
All Creatures Great and Small
Herald snake in the garden |
Spiders making massive webs in the mango trees above Amos's hammock |
Zambezi giant blind snake, just after it had slithered over Amos's foot. Behind the house |
Meyers parrot, waiting for us to get out of the garden so it can eat the sunflower seeds |
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Groovy caterpillar outside the front door |
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Chameleon crossing the path |
Monday, 2 March 2020
Road Trip
Here are some of the pictures:
Choma to Livingstone, which of course included a visit to Victoria Falls
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That's Jono and Amos under those umbrellas - we got very wet! |
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Jono at the top of the falls |
Day 2
Livingstone to Mongu. 510 km on a VERY bad road, almost 12 hours travelling. We followed the Zambezi for much of the way, so got to see a different view of it:
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We continued over this bridge and on to Mongu |
Day 3
Mongu was a bit of a blur, we just stayed the night and continued in the morning to Kaoma, another longish day of travel.
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Chewing the cud at a comfort stop. |
Days 4 & 5
Kaoma
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A small town, typical of the area |
It was good to have time to stay still and chat with new friends:
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Food and chat |
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Jono, Rabecca and Kevin |
Day 6
Kaoma to Kafue National Park
A night in the park, what a treat. We arrived for lunch and then did some game watching. Here are some highlights:
Fish eagle |
Hippo |
Dragon fly |
Jono and a croc |
The croc a bit closer |
LEOPARD FOOTPRINTS!!!! We were very excited about this! |
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Later, as the light was fading we went for a short drive and saw these:
Elephants, with baby |
And...
A LION!!! We were not on foot, you can see Kevin and Jono in the vehicle. We followed the lion for about a kilometre down the road! |
Day 7
On to Lusaka for Jono and Kevin to get their flight and Bridget and Amos a bus back to Choma.
Bridget's personal highlight:
Stoked |
Wednesday, 5 February 2020
A Visitor's View of Life
The reality, as I experienced it during my time, is that Bridget and Amos have made quite an unusual choice in the way they live and this comes with both advantages and challenges. Life on the Pilgrim Wesleyan compound is quite slow and simple. Power cuts due to load shedding as a result of drought meant that many meals were cooked over the brazier rather than inside on the hob – and the boiling the kettle for tea takes time if you have to make a fire first. There are many simple tasks to do that can be time consuming such as cleaning maize by winnowing using the wind, which Bridget taught me to do in my first week! Bridget is known by locals as a good wife and a white woman who sweeps as she undertakes basic household chores herself, like the other women in the community. Time is a pretty flexible concept in Choma and we experienced very little hurry or rush while there. There is time to pray, read, think, bake, visit and sit with people - just because. There are demands in other ways, however. Although most of the people we visited are getting by, for many it is very much a week to week, day to day existence, and it can be hard to weigh up how to respond to a constant flow of requests, often very genuine ones, for assistance of different kinds.
Here is Bridget, not really behind bars, but opening her kitchen door to let some air through |
Amos has a beautiful hammock, which is most wonderful to lie in. A couple of weeks into my stay, I was offered the privilege of a session lying in it during a hot and lazy afternoon. It hangs between two mango trees and is set up in such a way that you can lie mostly in the shade and even rest your mug on a carefully placed brick, so that tea is always within reach. One potential consequence of reading or dozing in the hammock is that it is very open and as a result you may end up having an impromptu chat with any number of passers-by. The most common version of this for Amos was the frequent interruption of small children who would persist in asking for mangoes from the trees, even though they were not yet ripe – still green, hard and not very tasty. Amos usually sent them packing but despite this, they remained persistent and often made off with unripe mangoes anyway.